what other think about you is not your business!!!!

what other think about you is not your business.  before i always thinks what poeple will think about me if if if if!!! I mean I am like this!!!  but i come to the idea that why i mind them!!!the best thing i should do is the mind my thing and let them jugde me.  I just putting pressure on myself though.Anyway Im doinag the best and |I am not ruining others!!!

till then,,

mylene

time

Times heals almost everything soo give time a time!!!!!!!!!

this passages was a friend forward message!!!I dont what his intention of giving a lot of time and messages even songs to me.  Maybe for old time sake!!!
His my close friend before and through a networking site we met again.
just the same old talked.

till then

mylene

my project

Family And Kinship


    As a Filipino my perception about family is like a treasure.  It is the reason for everything.  I strive for the best because of them.  The different of the Filipino family among other are being so close to each other or what we called the close family tight,  There family member can stayed at the same house whenever they ant.  Just like me My family stayed in my parent house.  For the reason that I am the youngest so as another custom that the youngest child owned the house.  But in chinese tradations according to my employer before its the other way around, the eldest owns the house and they are the one responsible for thier parents.


    Special traits among Filipino are being helpful and the Debt of gratitude.  If somebody lend a helping hand they will treasure it until the end and never forget.  Other traits are the depth respect among elderly.  And Using the word Ate, kuya , tiyo, tiya, and many other to give respects to siblings , aunt, and uncle.

CHILD RAISING

   As a parent I want my child to raised just like how my parent did to me. I want he to have fear in God, believe that everything happen for a purpose and Gods will.  And also i want  her to have a sense of responsibilities, love of work and especially respect for others.  I want the best for her in terms of education .So she will be ready to face life and its hardship.

AGING

   Im not afraid to grow old. Because I live my life in the fullest.  I smiled and accept every challenges in life.  And I belive that life is a journey and always an end in Gods perfect time and place.

HEALTH

    Health are wealth the most precious one.  We need to take care of it.  Its everything and its only one.  God gives our own feature soo what we need to do is to preserved and nurture it.  We need to satisfy all aspect in order to be called healthy.  Physical, emotional, spiritual, social, and spiritual are some of the aspect.

ECONOMY
   Economy involved people place and of course money. As we experience crisis this recent year I come to the idea that we need to maximize what we have right now and save for the future.  Economy and government relates to each other.  The stonger the governance the high the economic growth.  Like in the my country ,the Philippines, economic growth are minimal compare to here.  One of the factor are the governance, the maximization of resources, the education and peoples itself.

POVERTY

   Poverty are everywher.  Even in the first world country its there.Ther are many causes of poveryt.  In my countr I think thats the ranking problem.Lack of education and proper jobs leads to it.

  

my new found place to learn , A big and brave move!!!

                             during our lunch!!!!

    some photos are taken at our classsroom.. Its a rainy sturday but i wake up early to go and enrolled for a PSW personal support worker course.  A tough decision for me but i really considered it for it is one  way to step for real here in Canada.  Population are growing older and older.  Health worker soon will be that much though but the demand will be expecting to grow also.  Soo why not try it.  Nothing will lost instead will gain a lot.  Money money money was always an issue to me.  God will provide>He knows how much I am hunger for knowledge.  More update to come !!!!

till then

mylene        

I had a dream!!!

 I had a dream last night that im walking in the ailse!!Im wearing a gown with a long pants inside and eveybody ae not rushing for the event only me.  Seem that they dont like this though.  Anyway its just a dream.
And a dream for me was the other way aroound. huhuhuhuhu!! true and for real!!!Maybe i will not.  I never been ,,,to tell you.!!!!

I just get up quick.  I whisper,  common mylene cheer up its Friday!!!!!
This day is just an off to me.  Well because tommrrow is my regular holiday.
I do all my daily routine and take a shower early.
For I am going out.

the best of it i recieved a check from the canadian revenue councill. Nice one!!!

After my work i went to the bank and deposited the check and eentually send money to my family though/

Even a small amount will give a  relieve for them.

while walking going home i saw two of my nieghboor .the same as me, a caregiver>

we talked thing laugh and share event that are most common to us.

our work our boss and everything that jumps in our mind. 

Till the suns set we tear apart and hoping to see each other the next day!!!

till then

mylene

an ordinary day

   I just wake up on time 7 am.  do my regular routine  But the best thing i have the ipod,  While im workingg i had a music somewhere though.  Quite enjoying and relaxing and time passes without knowing.

After my work I went for a walk on the mall just 10 minutes away from our house.  Just the same old things.  I look for some stuffs.  I bought phonecard to call back home and i talked to my mother as usaul about more things and every expenses that i need to shoulder.. Thats my life.  I meant to work to support them.. Why Im working for????for  them of course.  I just dont to my partner about my ipod and as usual he was demanding for it.  Excause me!!!I dont want what i heared.. Its for me anyway.  This is usual here.  But back home not yet.  Soo it will gonna be a luxury for them. Noway!!!!

   Anyway thats all for today!!!1Im just busy with my new capsules!!!!!hehehehe.

  

    One thing  I gonna shared!!!Tell me your favorites songs I gonna tell you who you are!!!???

till then

mylene

New philippines head of the state

Im watching the proclamation of our newly elected president. |Pres.  Noynoy Aquino only son of the former president Cory Aquino and Benigno Aquino. <<<>>>>I am  hoping for a good governance though. Poverty were everywhere somewhat im hoping for a change!!!

Its not too late for change Mr president!!!We are still aiming for that though we are miles aways our concern are still. 

till then,
mylene

my new ipod touch

  Yesterday night was awsome.  My boss just asked me about his ipod,  I said i just in the drawer and then how about the old one in my office,  He told me you can have it if its working.  WOW Omg!!! true im so glad for thier kindness towards me in soo many ways..  He add that everybody had one why you cant have it.  And the best thing they hel pme to start up and upload songs from a websites tthen to i tunes and eventualy to the device.  How nice  of them!!!!Just a things, a device but what matters most  was that they treat me more than how can i explain!!!thank more!!!  And the worst of it I am kinda excited to download things soo I slept late and wake up early.  Im enjoying it and by and by learning the application inside.

till then

mylene

plants

this morning I watered the plan as added to my usual task.  I also put a water soluble fertilizer to grow faster though. Having plant outside in the house is one of thing i like here. a different thing from my previous job.

my niece got married!!!

At the age of 19 she got married.  Soo early.  She is my niece 2nd daugther of my only borther.  I am quite disappointed with her decision.  I told her ,you have long way to go but thats her decision though. just wish them to have happy life and stayed together for thick or thin.

crossing the street

crossing the street could be dangerous. even you follow the rules other didnt really mind!

accident happened!!!off course everybody dont want it to happned but it meant to be and there are reason behind.

Even person are too cautious , they are really meant to hapenned.just beware and be ready for everything.

maya got Mac Book

Maya is one of the kids I am taking care of.  Yesterday she got a new capsules.  But not the latest I pad.  Just the Mac Book laptop from Apple company.  How lucky she was.  She is 12 years of age.  Just a teenager but possesing this kind of property.  I mean property for me. Coz even now I dont have one.  But Im not envy nor feel sad.  They are what they are.

    Sometimes i feel life is unfair.. Why ?????because, """"why the other need to suffer much while some are laying in the bed of wellness"""???.  Just like this family.  As i observed they are rich in material things and they can posses whatever they want!!! I doesnt feel any about this though instead I am thankful that Im part of them now.   But this question keep tickling my mind.

  I find answer somewhat that GOD CREATED DIFFERENT THINGS AND SITUATION IN ORDER FOR US TO REALIZED WHAT MATTER MOST.  God created fairness i know that but his the only one knows how we can see it.  Maybe some are plenty of materials thing but they lucking something in thier heart.  Or the other way around.

   Anyway this are my feeling though Im happy and gald that I come this far in my life and doing well and hoping  more to come.

busy monday

monday is the start of my work.. Busy one. A lot of laundry to make and lot of things to fix.  And i think this is not a good day for my boss. I feel a brewing arguement here.  I heared they were yelling last night.  Thats not a usual thing for this house. And the unusual thing my bosswrite something to his wife , a rimender though they are not doing that before.
monday she comment about the table clothes!!!i dont want hear a comment and blame on me.especially monday and a feel a bit dis appointed.  Fine!!! need to work though.
I set the watching machine for there are lots of laundry.
I opened the diswasher and continue fixing every room and the shoe rack.
I dont mind the time just continue in my usual routine.  Till time to my most boring part.  Folding and segregating clothes.  But need to finish till the kids come oppppss hurry!!!!!
i wait the kids to come and give any help they want and thats it.  After few more hours monday's fever will be over. 
   For the rest of my time till i sleep Im doing this and waiting for my daugther. They will be on in skype.  Wanna see her.  I really miss her.  But life not that hard  likewhen my mom was working abroad.  No divice, no telephone.  Just letter for communication.Thanks for the technology that connect peoples even milloin miles of distance.

till then

                                           mylene

my channel

I had a filipino channel.  My employer are generous enough. Im soo glad when i found out that they subcribe.  Its been here before me i mean for the other caregiver.  I enjoy watching all the show.  I know most of it coz since in hongkong we had one.I watched 24 oras every night so I keep myself updated to the latest news back home.
   
    They are soo sensitive that they understand my situation.  Even I am miles aways its nt that hard if i saw something back home.  Thanks t yu my dear family in canada.  WIENRIECH FAMILY!!!!!!

                                                       TILL THEN
                                                        mylene

i love coffee!!

when i came here in canda i prefer to drink tim hourtns coffee!!! every weekend thats a treat for myself to have one.  Though we cannot bit starbucks coffee i prefer tims.  My day was complete if I got one.  Soo simple but thats me quite wierd.

till then!!!! mylene

i slept in the chair !

this was taken in vancouver intenational airport upon entering canada.  It was a tiring days.  I first start in hongkong international airport then we just had an hour stopped in taiwan international airport then  we flew 16 hours to vancouver.  But the bad thins was my local flight to toronto was on the following day.  I arrived 9 pm then the followin day my flight will be 11 am.. Soo i need to sleeep in the chair though.  They were some of my  companion waiting for thier own one.

from hongkong!!!

i worked in hongkong for the past two years. I worked as a househould worker and nanny. some places  i got and my aunt thier

saturday night

After i went for window shopping need t rush home though.  My employer needs me.Today is her husband birthday.We will jhave a gahering.  they need at 7 pm but  i want earlier.  That my attitude toward work.  I dont want in the hurry and hate being late. Seldom I do .Soo the visitors came I almost know eerybody for I am serving them for a year and meet them . The food just deliver for my employer dont have time t cooked.  But she cooked good and healhty.  Mostly vegeterian dishes far from our gathering in my homeland.  They seldom eat meat..

   Party continue and my usual work was just to fix everything. After I am done i put the two children in the bath and just read them stories and let them sleep.  That what my day!!!!  I mean night and almost morning till i finish writing on this blog.

     I go to my bed feeling so painful in my back.  I always complain this if i worked hard or sit longer i fell this pain  Next weed im  planning to consut my doctor.  I need too.

Today i wake up 9 am  I thought its just only 7  am but no no!!!! I grab my television clicker and turn it to a cathlic mass.  Even i dont go t church at least i had one though.
After then I ate and  Im planning to have a walk ,,,wait till the sunset wher ever my feet go !!!!!!
til then.

finally i got a direction !!!

As a caregiver my usual holiday are saturday and sunday. but friday night I am free already and i can dowhat i want. I don rent apartment to spend my holiday though. Need to save more anyway my employer was generous enough to let me stay here. Im living with them.

As i start blogging and arranging everything, I keep posting thing what ever i want. No timing no particular topic. Just anything jump into my head Id write it though. But i fingure out when im walking home from a window shopping. Why not make this as my journal for a week wherein i will write all the thing I done for the week ending on my holiday. Much better so reader can follow me on my ways and my thought will flowin smoothly.

yesterday, friday i went to a friend. She just came from my home country for a vacation and my family just brought me somtehing so I got it, a slipper, picture of my daughter and a species which is rare here. <<

we called this dry kamias. A sour thing that put at the bottom of the pot with the fish.this is the slipper I request from my family TRIBU was its particular brand. I found this comtable and i do have one before but not this style.

After i got those i went home. and the funny thing was i lost my way going home. I ride a bus for one zone just to save and i walk for the other zone coz its a kind of healhty and i use the short cut way and because it startin to got darked i lost but thanks god i remember the school near our house and i just tracked the way and thats it. I arrived almost 10 pm but every body still wide awake. Need to say hi to everybody and say goodnight coz im kinda stay in my room. Straight to my room I opned my computer and that its. I start to log in some site Im in too update and keep myself posted in all my friends.

Its my habbit before i go to bed to drink a cup of chromomile tea. Its help me got a goodnight sleep and knock me down As in down .

I wake up early because this stupid toilet is calling me. I cant barely open my eyes and step out on my bed but I need to. My mind keep saying you need to make a peeh or else it gonna blow. Gosh but true i hate this. I want to sleep more especially during weekend that i dont have something to do early. After this thing i go back to sleep but i cant soo I open my computer and start logging again. But a plan is brewing in my mind. I wanna go to VAUGHAN MILL, a big and huge mall which you can find a lot of stuff and can find a chief one too. Soo after few update on my account in facebook and in this site i take a shower and dressed up.. While im taking a shower i cook something using my rice cooker soo after i have something to eat.. We called this as SINIGANG and i put shirmp instead of pork.. I got the shirmp three days ago from a chinese store nearby.

And soo as i finish taking the shower the shirmp stew was done also. And i cooked rice. It was funny coz i want it to be more healhty so I mixed the brown rice to white one but the thing is the white cooked faster than the brown soo it kinda hard but its fine for a hungry lion like me!!!!joke!!!!And soo i eat and fix myself and go out. I called the customer service for the buses schedule and I am just on time. I reached the mall after half an hour. Roomed around find stuff that are on sale and i got few. Usually I am not a quick buyer but after the promotion time gone thats the time I realized that I want the thing. Soo by and by I am changing if i want it and I can afford i go for it so no regret!!!

My attitude from past, before I brought for myself I think for my family first. I felt guilty if I think of myself . Im a selfless person. But just found out that why not give myslef a break for this attitude. Anyway they are not demanding anything for . What can i afford is just they accept. If nothing its fine for them.Its good to share but its also good that you thinf for yourself too.Thats one of my friends advise.

Im not a fashionistic one..I go for the simple and comtable. During summer i just wanna wear short and flip flop.thats it. I never go also for signature clothes for its expensive and i never became a brand concious.



As i went around the mall i got hungry and gave myself a relief.!!!!

this are someof the stuff i brought!!!

some spot in the mall!!!!

the heat is on this day and i got this photo while wating fo the bus!!!Look at the sun's ray!!!!!

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